It is a fact that our closet is filled with unused clothes ranging from undergarments to signature gowns and trousers while your dresser bureau stores unopened perfume and body mist bottles. Your kitchen countertop is in total disarray because of the numerous kitchen knickknacks waiting to be used. Although having those items make you look like a hoarder because they were gifts from people close to you, you cannot just easily discard them.
Like many customs and traditions, gift giving has been deeply inlayed in our system. Since we live in this world where giving gifts is as natural as breathing, eating and sleeping, it doesn't need an occasion and a time when to give. Giving gifts has become a symbol of friendship, gratitude and thoughtfulness. Exchanging gifts during the Christmas season and Thanksgiving is famous around the world. Even if they say that occasions such as Christmas are only for the children, there is always that little child in you paying curious glances over the gifts underneath that tall Christmas tree. That little child in you is impatiently waiting for that day to open the gift box with glee.
Middle Easterners distribute sweets and goodies such as chocolates, candies and cakes to welcome the birth of a child in the family. In a few parts of Asia, cigarette sticks are given to male members of the family and friends every time a baby boy is born in the clan. Horseshoes are given as wedding gifts while yearly wedding anniversaries have also corresponding kinds of gifts in the UK. Of course food given as gifts can be easily disposed, but what about those that cannot?
Surely you do not want to be branded names for refusing or returning gifts, right? You do not want to give a person something that will not merit appreciation. Even when you do not like the gift, receiving and expressing your gratitude is the most appropriate thing a civilized person is expected to do so. Therefore, you have to observe a very basic principle in gift giving which is “Do not give the ape what the ape does not want”. This principle may sound so simple yet from this, you will surely be guided in choosing gift items for the right occasion. A scarf made of wool or a jacket made from fleece seem inappropriate as a gift during the summer in as much as a pair of swim wear or swimming goggles on a freezing winter. These gifts will likely end up in the storage until such time that its use will be appreciated.
Giving gift does not have to be costly because the thoughtfulness counts more than the monetary value of a gift given at the right occasion at the right time. All year round, there are so many reasons when and why we give gifts but the most important is we give gifts as a form of expressing our love. When you want to give a
unique wedding gift, know the couple personally so that it will be easier for you to decide to choose among the
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